GLOW Body Pilates Studio · Ridgewood, NJ

Questions I'm asked all the time

These are the questions women actually ask me, in the studio and before they've booked. If yours isn't here, ask me directly.

Do you have to be flexible to do Pilates?

No. Flexibility isn't what you need to start, it's something that comes later if it comes at all. What matters at the beginning is that you can move a little and you're willing to pay attention. I've had clients who couldn't touch their knees on day one and did perfectly well.

Why does my neck take over when I exercise?

Usually because something else isn't carrying its share, and the neck is right there to help.

So rather than correcting the neck, I'm looking at what we need to wake up underneath it. Once that's working, the neck tends to let go on its own.

I was told I need to strengthen my core. Can Pilates help with that?

Yes. Core strength is a large part of what the work is, and it's one of the most common reasons women are sent to me.

What I'd add is that core isn't only the abdominals you can see. It's the deep abdominals, the pelvic floor, the back and the breathing, all working together. That's what we build.

I'll start by looking at how you're standing and moving so we know where to begin. Then we build from there, at a pace that's safe for you.

When I do stomach exercises at home, why does my lower back hurt?

If you're feeling abdominal work in your lower back, something isn't set up right, and it's worth stopping rather than pushing through.

Usually it means the position needs changing or the exercise needs to be smaller. That's the kind of thing I'm watching for in a session.

Working with me privately, I'm choosing the movement that strengthens the core and the back together, even when we're focused on abdominals. It's all connected.

Why can I do an exercise better on one side but not the other?

Because you're not symmetrical, and nobody is. You carry a bag on one shoulder, cross the same leg, sleep facing the same way for thirty years, and the body organises itself around that.

The side that struggles usually isn't the weak side. It's the honest one. The other side has found a route that doesn't ask the same muscles to fire.

What is footwork and why is it important?

Footwork is usually where we begin on the reformer or chair.

It looks simple, but it's doing a lot of heavy lifting. It wakes up your legs and hips, reveals how your knees and ankles track, and sets your alignment for everything that comes after.

It's also where I learn the most about how your body moves in the very first few minutes.

Will Pilates actually be challenging enough?

Pilates focuses on moving the body in a way that challenges stability, along with strengthening. Those two together are what make it harder than it looks.

A seasoned instructor understands that combination and keeps it in mind, along with safety.

Most people are surprised. Something small and slow, done well, asks a great deal more of you than something big and fast.

What's the difference between private Pilates and a class?

In a class the work is built for the room. Here it's built for you, and it changes as you change. If something isn't working halfway through, we do something else. Every session at GLOW Body is one to one or duet.

I'm in my seventies. Am I too old to start Pilates?

No, and I'd say the opposite. The work matters more as we get older, not less. Balance, bone loading, staying upright, getting off the floor without thinking about it. I've started women in their seventies who became the most consistent clients I have.

Can Pilates help during menopause?

A lot changes in these years, and the body you had at twenty, thirty and forty isn't the one you're working with now.

What Pilates offers is strength work that's precise rather than punishing, and real attention to how you're standing and moving. Where we start is your body today, not the one you used to have.

Things begin to fall into place. Muscle memory returns, and relearning proper recruitment makes a real difference, particularly for women who haven't had an active past.

When can I start after having a baby?

Once you've been cleared by your doctor. We start gently and we start with what's underneath, because the abdominal wall and the pelvic floor need attention before anything gets loaded. I assess first so we know what we're working with, then build from there rather than jumping back to where you left off.

Can Pilates help me with knee, hip or back pain?

That depends entirely on what's going on, which is why I look before we do anything.

Some of what I see is an old injury. Some of it is years of standing and moving a certain way. Either way, I'd want to look first.

Every session here is one to one. Anything that creates pain we avoid, and we work around it to get things moving and build strength where it's safe to.

Can Pilates help with neck pain?

That depends on what's behind it, so I'd want to look first. An old injury is one thing. Hours looking down at a screen is another.

Tech neck and forward head posture are common now, not to mention all the bending and imbalanced movement a day asks of us. Alignment plays a large part in why muscles end up tight.

So we work in all planes of movement, to counter that flexion and forward imbalance. And a lot of it starts further down than people expect. The feet, how you land, how you move. The neck sits at the top of all of it.

Anything that aggravates it, we leave alone.

Can Pilates help with shoulder pain and frozen shoulder?

Shoulder pain is the most common thing women come to me with.

Your shoulder blade sits on your rib cage, so the mid back and the scapula are usually where I start. Mobility first, then strengthening the shoulder girdle, and we stay well away from anything that hurts.

Frozen shoulder is one to see your doctor about first. Then we work alongside that.

Will Pilates help me lose weight?

Not on its own, and I'd be careful of anyone who promises that.

What it changes is how you carry yourself, and how the muscles begin to lift and streamline the body. As you start recruiting properly, some women find inches coming off the waistline and hips, the arms tone, and the posture lengthens.

Consistency is what makes the difference. Your body counts the hours you put in, so staying with it is what brings the results.